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Kevin was they type of guy that made you smile upon the mention of his name. I was one of many who attended NGC with Kevin. Even though it has been 16 years since I have seen Kevin, I have the indelible impression of his kind demeanor and sincere friendship in my mind each time I think of him. I pray for the Jenrette family, for peace that passeth all understanding, during this difficult time. My heart pours out to each of you.
I am so thankful for soldiers like Kevin who defend my freedom everyday. Kevin’s service as a Guardsman, beyond the call of duty, is a shining example of his character. May we honor Kevin as we remember his ultimate sacrifice.
Dearest Friends – Shannon, Corey, Brody and Megan,
I have read through the sympathies of dozens of Kevin’s friends and I am truly saddened at your loss. Having graduated in 1985 and moving from the area, I never had the pleasure of meeting your husband/father, however, our bonds were fourfold; NGC, Sigma Chi Brother, Comrade in Arms and most importantly Brother in Christ. Men are born and at their appointed time are called home as their work on this earth is complete, but they live on in the hearts of those who knew them. May God grant each of you the peace of knowing Kevin is still living on in so many hearts. By God’s grace I hope to one day meet Kevin in the place where there is no sorrow.
May I offer these prayers on your behalf:
O God, our heavenly Father, who lovest mankind, and art most merciful and compassionate, have mercy upon they servants Shannon, Corey, Brody and Megan for whom I humbly pray thee, and commend to thy gracious care and protection. Be thou, O God, their guide and guardian in all their endeavors, lead them in the path of thy truth, and draw them nearer to thee, that they may lead a godly and righteous life in thy love and fear; doing thy will in all things. Give them grace that they may be temperate, industrious, diligent, devout and charitable. Defend them against the assaults of the enemy and grant them wisdom and strength to resist all temptation and corruption of this life; and direct them in the way of salvation, through the merits of thy Son, our Savior Jesus Christ. Amen
Into thy hands, O Lord, I commend the soul of thy servant Kevin, and beseech thee to grant him rest in the place of thy rest, where all thy blessed Saints repose, and where the light of thy countenance shineth forever. And I beseech thee also to grant that our present lives may be godly, sober, and blameless, that, we too may be made worthy to enter into thy heavenly Kingdom with those we love but see no longer: for thou are the Resurrection, and the Life, and the Repose of thy departed servants, O Christ our God, and unto thee we ascribe glory: to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit; now and ever, and unto ages of ages. Amen
I knew Kevin both as a brother and as a friend. His loss has weighed heavily on my heart these last few days. He was a great man, with impeccable character, and a love for those that surrounded him and for the country that we live in. The world is a little dimmer without him. Even though we can’t understand him leaving us so soon, as he stands now with his Creator, I know that he has heard “You have fought the good fight, you have finished your work, My Creation has gained a new luster from your life. ”
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Kevin was a man of uniquely strong character. It only took a few minutes knowing Kevin to know what he believed in and to know that he had the courage to stand up for those beliefs. Please know that Kevin’s life touched so many other lives. His spirit lives on in the lives of so many others. Most importantly, his spirit lives on in Corey, Brody and Megan. Your father fought for what he believed in and had the strength to smile in good times and bad. He was a leader and a friend. I have been so deeply moved reading the words left by the people that Kevin touched. I am sitting in my office with tears in my eyes reading the words that Jason Bryan wrote. I am humbled because I know that I have the security and freedom to sit in my office and write these words because men like Kevin had the courage to wake up everyday and defend it. Thank you Kevin! God Bless!
To the Jenrette Family: As Commandant at NGCSU, I came to know Kevin a few years ago when he graciously agreed to serve as an observer-controller for our new cadets during an August FROG Week. Since that time, I have communicated with him only a couple of times, but I hold his service to his country and his love for NGC in high regard. I know his classmates have shown an overpowering demonstration of their love for him via email, and that says a lot! He was “like family” to SCORES of alumni, and he was a man whom everybody genuinely liked to be with. In my 10 years at the college, I have never heard any alumnus say anything about Kevin OTHER THAN what a great officer he was!
I will continue to pray for your family during these difficult times, and I count it an honor to have known Kevin while he was on this earth.
Reading over the postings and heart-felt messages from all of the people that loved Kevin so much – I cannot hold back the wave of grief any longer. I completely agree with so many that the time we shared with Kevin at NGC will forever be held as some of the best times. No matter the length of time that passed since last seeing Kevin, our memories are clear as if it were yesterday and Kevin was always happy to share his smile.
That smile that we have all experienced at one time or another – Kevin is out hero.
Shannon and family – I know that nothing anyone says or writes can make your pain any less, but I pray that after some time has passed, you will be able to look back over all of this and beam with pride at the fine man Kevin was. One day the tears will be lessened and the smiles increased. You are ALL paying the highest price for our freedoms and we, as extended family, friends, and citizens truly appreciate Kevin’s service and ultimate sacrifice.
Roger, Tombo and Mike – you are the BEST friends a man can have. Please know how much we all love you and hope that our little boys may become half the men you are all! You all have a very special place in my heart. Knowing you – I am truly blessed.
I pray that God cradles your families in his arms and provides you with the comfort you need now and over the next days, months and years.
Kevin – you are truly a blessing to us all and I am so honored to be able to call you a friend.
Although I have never met MAJ Kevin Jenrette, I am a proud member of the NGC family and know the path he took to become an Army Officer. The brotherhood of those who pass thru the Boar’s Head Brigade share something special from the moment they enter into FROG Week thruout their next four years and onward either into the military or the civilian sector. Truly, Kevin’s friends from NGC have reached out to the family and each other and know the bond they built from that early experience in Dahlonega will sustain them thru this experience.
I lost my father, a WWII veteran and mentor for life, 7 weeks ago to an inoperable brain tumor and know from that recent experience that my NGC buds were there for me and had my back. I’m proud to see that the tradition of supporting one another, long after we have left the Drill Field at NGC, continues to this day.
Renee and I offer our most sincere condolences to the Jenrette family and know that our prayers will be with you in the days ahead. God Bless.
Joshua 1:9: “Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go.”
My prayers go out to the entire Jenrette Family. I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss. I served with MAJ Jenrette while assigned to the Georgia Recruiting & Retention Battalion and again after I retired as a contractor. He was not just a fellow Soldier, I considered him a friend. He never hesitated to listen, provide guidance and take care of his enlisted soldiers. May you find comfort in knowing that MAJ Jenrette positively touched the lives of so many and we will always be here for you. He will be missed.
I am deeply saddened to hear of the loss of such a wonderful person. I was a classmate of Kevin’s at NGC and though I have not seem him in many years, I am honored and humbled to have known a true America hero. My thoughts and prayers are with the Kevin’s friends and family during this difficult time. God Bless You Kevin, you will be missed.
I knew Kevin while at NGC, but being two years ahead and in different fraternities, I didn’t have the opportunity get to know him well. I regret that missed opportunity. Over the past 6 years, I have gotten to know Tombo, Roger and Mike very well, and I now understand that Kevin was made of the same Character and Principles that they come from. By knowing them and reading the comments below, I know that he was a great warrior and friend to many. I pray that my two boys will grow to be men like that.
Corey, Brody, and Megan… Your father is a true hero. Understand that the freedoms that we enjoy in the United States, most of which we all take for granted, are because of men like your father, who sacrifice to protect us and the freedoms that we enjoy.
God Bless your family!
To the Jenrette family,
My deepest heartfelt condolences go out to you in the tragic loss of Kevin. Kevin was a great leader and his courage, dedication, and sense of honor served as a great role model for me. Kevin’s ultimate sacrifice in defense of this great country and our freedom will never be forgotten. May God bless you and guide you through this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Barry Hearne
NGC ‘97
Dear Shannon- First, my family’s thoughts and prayers go to you, your children, and the entire Jenrette family. After reading the comments from many of my fellow Sigma Chi brothers, classmates, and NGC staff, it overwhelms my heart with both joy and sadness. Every statement rings so true, that I can only reiterate their words. When hearing the news on Thursday, my heart sank. I hadn’t seen or spoken with Kevin in many years, but immediately his unmistakable smile came to my mind. Spending the better part of Friday afternoon looking through old college pictures, even a spring break video when Kevin and I stayed together. Every emotion came to surface, grief, laughter, and everything thing in between. My wife returned home late Friday evening with my two girls after a week beach trip. As huge tears rolled down my face I hugged my children as tight as I could. My six year old looked at me and ask why I was crying. I told her that an old friend of daddy’s went to be with God in heaven and I was a little sad. I then shard the photos and fond memories of my friend with them and told them of how proud I was to have know Mr. Kevin. My daughter once again looked at me and said “Don’t be sad daddy, if we are proud of Mr. Kevin God is proud of him too”. How true, I will celebrate and giver thanks for having known him. Kevin is not only a friend, he was a brother, an example for others, a TRUE American hero.
May God’s blessings and grace be with you and your family.
Shannon,
I cannot tell you how heartbroken I was to hear about Kevin. Although we have lost touch over the years I want you to know that I am here for you if you need anything. Kevin was such a wonderful person. I remember the very first time you told me that you liked him and that one day you would marry him. I cannot imagine what you are going through. I will continue to pray for the entire Jenrette family.
I was deeply saddened to hear this news and please know that of all my family’s thoughts and prayers are with you.
I was honored to know Kevin while at North Georgia College. We were in the Corps of Cadets and Fraternity brothers in Sigma Chi. He was good friend, a true leader and was the type of person that others on campus and in the military aspired to emulate.
After graduation I had lost touch with Kevin but was lucky enough to see him a few years ago at the Atlanta Motor Speedway during a National Guard recruiting drive. I introduced him to my wife and we talked for about 30 minutes reminiscing about the good times at NGC. As we finished our conversation, Kevin and I shook hands and as I walked away I told my wife that he was one of the most squared away soldiers that I had ever met and that anyone who served with him was lucky to have such a good and decent leader. If there is one thing that is evident it is that the North Georgia family bonds are strong. Even though we may not see old friends we still think about each other often and pray for the others well being.
I am also very grateful for Kevin’s service to our country. I recently saw a television interview where an Iraq war veteran was asked, “Why do you put on the uniform and serve?” He simply said, “So my friends and family don’t have to.” I think about that often and realize that Kevin, as did many of our friends from North Georgia who have served and still serve today, did it so everyone could enjoy the freedom we sometimes take for granted.
May God bless all of you.
Richard Wilson
North Georgia College Class of 1995
I struggle to express the sadness weighing on my heart. Never did I imagine seeing my friend from college on the evening news as one of three KIA overseas. So many fond memories of Kevin keep surfacing in my mind. We shared bonds of bortherhood in Sigma Chi, the Corp of Cadets, and even in the Business Department at NGC (many marketing classes w/ Dr. Skelley)!
To the entire Jenrette family, my prayers are with you.
One memory that keeps popping up to me is the night Tombo, Nixon, and Jenrette all went out during their senior year and got tattoos to show their loyalty to each other and to the Aggressors / Colombo. On their shoulder below the Aggressor / Colombo symbol was the word “Pals”. Tombo and Roger, the bravery your dear pal displayed will never be forgotten. May the Lord look over and strengthen you during this difficult time.
Our prayers are with the family. While we did not know Kevin well, he has left a legacy with his family and classmates that will be remembered. May God Bless the Jenrette family and those that are with them during this time.
I never met Kevin, but wish I had. I am a friend of Roger Nixon, who was a great friend of Kevin. Kevin represents all this is good with America. He gave his life for each of us and I know he is in a better place for it. He is a true hero and I think God for him and all of his fellow soldiers who protect our freedom every day.
I sincerely wish the best for all of his friends and family. I pray for those he left behind. Their sacrifice is so great that words alone cannot heal. Hopefully though, they will at least offer some solace as we all pay tribute to a true hero. I have never met you, but I love you and wish you all the best. I will pray for you.
My deepest condolences during this very difficult time.
Kevin was two years ahead of me at NCG—-my first memories of him were during FROG week when he was braking us in as new cadets (and like most FROG week encounters with upperclassmen, it was not a pleasant experience). Over the two years we spent together at NGC, I was privileged to become fraternity brothers with Kevin and get to know him better.
I have always and will continue to hold Kevin Jenrette in high regard. He was a leader who inspired others to be their best. He was tough but also compassionate.
Alfred Lord Tennyson wrote in Ulysses,
“I am a part of all that I have met;
Yet all experience is an arch wherethro’
Gleams that untravell’d world, whose margin fades
For ever and for ever when I move.”
I’ll alway be grateful for having known Kevin Jenrette. While I wish he was still here with us in life, I am also grateful for the gift that God gives us all to carry those friends and loved ones who have passed with us in our hearts and minds until we meet again.
Not – How did he die? But – How did he live?
Not – What did he gain? But – What did he give?
These are the things that measure the worth
Of a man as a man, regardless of birth.
Not – What was his station? But – had he a heart?
And – How did he play his God-given part?
Was he ever ready with a word of good cheer?
To bring back a smile, to banish a tear?
Not – What was his church? Not – What was his creed?
But – Had he befriended those really in need?
Not – What did the sketch in the newspaper say?
But – How many were sorry when he passed away?
These are the things that measure the worth
Of a man as a man, regardless of birth.
I can’t think of any truer words to describe Kevin’s worth as those above. As so many on here have said, I knew Kevin from our days at NGC. We had some business classes together and attended many of the same socials (okay parties). Shannon may you find some comfort in knowing that so many people are praying for you and your precious family. Corey, Brody and Megan; without a doubt; I know that Roger, Tombo, and Mike will teach you things your daddy loved like hunting, fishing, country music and UGA football. You are lucky to have these men in your live, and I feel certain that they feel lucky to have had your daddy in their lives, albeit for too short a time. COL (ret) and Mrs. Jennrette, may y’all find some peace in knowing how much your son loved and was loved. And to Kevin, thank you so very much to the service for our country. God Bless the USA!
We will be remembering you daily in our prayers as you go through this difficult time.
Kevin was one of those guys I always looked up to because of his character, love of country, and selflessness. I’m so thankful that I had the chance to know him at NGC. While in Aggressors he became a mentor and taught me things that I still rely on to this very day.
Kevin, you will be missed!
“Now to him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us”–Ephesians 3:20
I am proud to have known Kevin. What an amazing person. He is the perfect example of all that I try to teach my students- loyal, courageous, a proud American and a true hero.
God bless him and his family, friends and loved ones. We will not forget what you have given.
It is with the deepest of heart ache that we all write to you on this occasion. We all pray that you’ll find solace in the evidence written by all that Kevin is one of the finest men we’ve been privileged to know. One can not read these sentiments without wiping back tears as we nod in agreement with every last testament to his character, courage, and love for life. Please know that Kevin enriched each of our lives, whether it was only but a few years at NGC or lifetime… we are all better for knowing him.
Kevin, I thank you as a mentor, love you as a brother, and SALUTE you as a Soldier!
From time to time over the 23 years since I first met Kevin I have thought back on conversations that we had. I seems odd that I can look back on things we talked of as part time roommates at Lyman Ward and consider them deep or life changing. How much vision can a fourteen and sixteen year old have? I guess the answer is not as much then as we thought at the time and more now than I ever realized.
I am sure he has touched the lives of more people than anyone will ever know.
To the Jenrette family – my thoughts and prayers go out to you in this very trying time. He made the ultimate sacrifice for his country and we are all grateful for his service and his patriotism.
Kevin was a great man and a true inspiration to those of us who followed in his footsteps at NGC and aspired to become Army leaders. I was fortunate to have met him several times throughout my career and always held him in high regard. We had many mutual friends, and I never met anyone who had anything negative to say about Kevin. I live in Gainesville now, and I hope I can help in any way possible in the weeks and months ahead. Had the roles been reversed, I know Kevin would have done the same.
Kevin – Rest in peace, brother. You are not forgotten. You crossed the deep river without us. We look forward to seeing you on the other side.
No news of a loss of life hit me harder than the one I received on Thursday evening. Kevin was a wonderful person and we are all better for knowing him. While we were in the Corps, I always respected him and we got along pretty good. It wasn’t until we were roommates our senior year that I realized what a great guy he was (except for the fact that he had to listen to country music to go to sleep).
My thoughts and prayers go out to everyone who is grieving.
To Shannon, Corey, Brody, Megan, Col. and Mrs. Jenrette,
I am deeply saddened to be writing this message to you about Kevin Jenrette, my friend, who paid the ultimate sacrifice for our Great Nation. Your Daddy, Husband, and Son was a wonderful man. Although I have not seen Kevin in six or seven years, I see him clearly in my mind tonight. Kevin was a man of principle and character. Not once, in any recollection that I have, did your father sacrifice his morals and values for any cause. I am positive that he received these values from his father and mother, that this was the reason that Shannon loved him so dearly, and I am certain that he has passed along these values to you, his children, as his legacy.
My fondest memories of Kevin, from NGC, was from my Sophmore year, his Junior year when I was a squad leader in Delta Company and Kevin was our First Sergeant during Winter Quarter. Chris Steele and I were roommates and usually the first thing that Kevin said when he entered our room was “elevate your feet”. It was on one particular night that I heard your father laugh and smile more than anytime that I knew him. He entered our room without knocking because he heard a “disturbance” in the hallway. What he found when he entered was Chris and I recalculating the amount of “green line” required to do a successful slack jump out of our third story window in Gaillard Hall. Much to his dismay, we proceeded and Chris conducted a perfect slack jump onto the bushes in front of Gerard Samples room. Kevin chuckled and smiled for about 30 minutes while he “smoked” us for breaking the rules.
Tonight I read what many that commented before me wrote about your father, husband and son. Some of the postings made me smile and many made my eyes well up with tears. We will never understand the sorrow and pain that you feel. We can only pray that in due time, that you will understand that Kevin was a true American Hero and that his sacrifice was not in vain. It was only his body that perished and that his soul will live in you and us forever. I am certain that Kevin is with our Creator in Heaven and that his last moments were thoughts of you. You will be in our thoughts and prayers over the days to come and know that your support structure reaches out beyond your front door and your immediate family. Kevin was truly loved by us all and it is only fitting that we offer up any assistance that we can provide.
For Kevin’s dear friends, we are all heavy hearted with this loss. It was last Thursday evening that I took the phone call from Roger and learned that Kevin had passed. Please know that your comments, albeit directed to Kevin’s family, meant a lot to me as your friend. I have traveled in and out of Afghanistan over the last three years and know what challenges that our Nation faces first hand. For those of you still serving in our Armed Forces, I salute you. May your journies be short and bring you home safe.
In times like this we often realize the strong network of friends developed over the years. While I did not know Kevin on a personal level like many of his classmates from 95, I did know him as an upperclassman with great character and dedication. I am sorry for the loss to the family and know that he will be truly missed by all. We have all be touched by not all his service to the nation, our school, but to his family.
This is my favorite part about your daddy; I’ll think of him everytime I see a green John Deere hat. I’ll always picture him wearing one and he made that old hat look really cool.
I too am honored to have been in the company of such a man and to have called him my brother.
He epitomizes the difference in the American warrior; he fought out of great love. Love for you, your mom, your grand parents alll of his friends, Love for the freedom that he inherited and made an oath to defend, Love for his Lord and Savior. This is Kevin Jenrette’s story and legacy. I will cherish it for the inspiration that it brings me now and for the days ahead. My children will know about you and your dad. Thank you.
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this trying time. We are deeply saddened by your loss and I know that I have lost a good friend. I am comforted, however, by the fact that Kevin died doing what he knew was the right thing for so many different reasons. He will always have my utmost respect for that.
My wife Wendy and I feel lucky to have known Kevin. We both met him at North Georgia College in the Corps of Cadets beginning in 1991. To me, Kevin was the type of man that you meet just once in your lifetime. Kevin was a true leader. He had a purpose in everything that he did. He didn’t have to have someone teach him how to be that way or what to say or how to act in certain situations. It just came naturally to him. Knowing Kevin made you want to be a better person. In fact, just being around him made me expect more from myself. Kevin was real. I never had to guess what he was about, what he was thinking, or how he was going to react. With him it was right or it was wrong. You always knew where you stood with Kevin. All you had to do was to look him in the eye. No words needed to be said.
I was fortunate to be able to interact with Kevin outside of the Corps of
Cadets in NGC’s Sigma Chi chapter, Theta Epsilon. I saw a different side of Kevin in our various meetings and social gatherings then.
I came into the fraternity in my junior year and was surprised by Kevin by the deep desire that he had (along with other brothers of the fraternity) for instilling the ideals of Sigma Chi into myself and my other pledge brothers. I could tell that the things that Kevin was telling me were already ingrained into his being. The ideals that were being magnified by the fraternity were ideals that Kevin was already living.
I remember our senior year at NGC. Kevin and Tombo Jones were both fellow company Commanders in Gaillard Hall. The stories that would circulate around the Corps about how Kevin and Tombo would lead their units became legend fairly quickly…the pet frog, taking their freshmen up to the slopes of Radar Ridge for a inter-company mud fight and the like. Kevin was a team builder. His company at school knew that about
him and loved him for it as did his peers. When I think of the Corps of
Cadets, Kevin Jenrette has a place front and center in my mind. He helped define what NGC was about during his time there and I am better for having known him during his time on this earth.
For those memories and the time that I spent with Kevin while he was with us I count myself lucky and grateful. I will miss him greatly!
You have our sincerest condolences,
Tommy Akin and Wendy Woods-Akin
NGC ‘95
I only met Kevin briefly while going through Ranger school; however, I remember how honored I felt to finally meet him.
Going through school at NGC we all heard stories about Kevin, Tombo, Roger, and Mike Ivy. We all tried to be like Kevin – to “never lower the standard” that was set so high by him. His legacy made such a lasting impact on me that to this day I still have Kevin’s old Ranger School Handbook (RHB) displayed on my bookshelf. It has written on the front cover, “B/M Jenrette”. That RHB was passed down over the years after Kevin left NGC and was eventually handed down to Nick Berrena. When Nick passed away in 1996 a few of us kept some things that meant a lot to him. Kevin’s RHB was one of those things. I would like to return it to the Jenrette family or Kevin’s closest friends since Kevin wrote his name on it. I was fortunate enough to have it through these years – it has motivated me through many things.
To the Jenrette family – Kevin’s legacy lives on through so many of us still serving.
God bless you all during this time. You are in my prayers.
“…and never will I lower the standard which has been set by those members before me…” – Aggressor Creed
To the Jenrette Family,
I express my sincere condolences to you during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers will be you during this difficult time. As you can see, Kevin was greatly loved, admired and respected by friends, his fraternal brothers and the members of the staff at NGC and elsewhere. i did not have the pleasure of meeting Kevin before i left NGC but know that as a member of Sigma Chi he would have portrayed those values that Sigma Chi’s hold dear and true to their heart. God will help us all out during this difficult time.
God Bless
Jon LaFollette
NGC ‘89
Any soldier that perishes on the battlefield is a great loss. However, when it is a fellow NGC Warrior, it pierces to a deeper level. Although I did not know Kevin directly, the vicarious friendships that we shared provide insight to him. Our hearts and prayers go out to the Jenrette Family.
I am not sure if you remember me or not…we were in Mrs. Jones 4th/5th Grade combined class at Lula Elementary School. We also attended East Hall High School Together. Some how I was included in the email chain concerning your husband. I graduated from North Georgia College in 2005 after 8 years in the U.S. Army.
I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss. My family’s thoughts and prayers will be with you through this ordeal. Having served in the Army myself this is something that you never want to see happen. We all go in knowing that it could but we always put it out of our minds to get the job at hand done. God Bless men like your husband and the many like him for putting themselves in harms way to keep this great country of ours free! Again…our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours through this difficult time.
I can’t express how truly sorry I am for your loss! I have had such a heavy heart since hearing about this tragedy. My thoughts and prayers are with you all!
Shannon – I can’t imagine how you feel! Please know that while time may have seperated us, you will always have a special place in my heart! If there is anything I can do, please let me know!
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.
Kevin was my comany commander at NGC my freshman year and later my fraternity brother. To say he was respected does not do it justice.
For our company, he always encouraged, set high goals and expected each of us to do well. I remember him as a person of unquestionable high character. Most of all I remember him as a leader.
Kevin was an amazing person. All of us who knew him are truly better for it.
We all will meet many people throughout our lives. However, very few of us will be honored to know someone as remarkable as your Son, Husband and Father.
Shannon,
My heartfelt condolences go out to you, your children, the Jenrette family, and friends alike.
My relationship with Kevin seems brief in the grand scheme of things, but in the years we were classmates and brothers in Sigma Chi fraternity, he always impressed me with a maturity level beyond his years. I never experienced the military side of Kevin’s life, and I always remember him being soft spoken compared to most at our fraternity meetings. However when Kevin spoke within our circle, his beliefs were always true and steadfast, and one always knew where he stood with Kevin. In those meetings it was obvious to see the value and weight his words carried with our brotherhood. A respected leader among our circle of friends.
I’m eternally grateful for the ultimate sacrifice Kevin made for the privilege of freedom that we so often take for granted. God rest his soul.
What a wonderful man we had the priviledge to know. Kevin was a NGC friend and classmate and like so many others have said, was such a joy to be around. His smile was infectious and his attitude was always so upbeat and positive. He was a true southern gentleman and I am thankful to have known him and for all his service to our country. My thoughts and prayers are with each and everyone of you.
Shannon, Corey, Brody, Megan, COL and Mrs. Jenrette
First let me say I am here for you in any way needed. Maj J and I were the Task Force Command team of TF Ripper for the Recruiting and Retention Bn and spent everday together for well over a year. In that time Maj J was like a brother to me we mentored eachother in different ways. You must know that Maj J was a Soldiers Officer always out front and never asking his Soldiers to do or give anything that he himself would not do! I would follow him anywhere. I must tell you that very few Officers impacted me the way Maj J did. Oh and know that he not only talked the ARMY Values he lived them. The Georgia Army National Guards lost of Maj Jenrette has lefted us weaker today. He has touched me and all who knew him and will never be forgotten. My prayers are with all of you.
Just wanted to add my thoughts and prayers to the list. No words can soften the loss of a loved one, but this is a wonderful tribute to a man who appears to have left his impact on a lot of people. Thank you for your service, and I am truly sorry for your loss. Rick Spearman ‘80.
Grace and I are deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Kevin. Being three years ahead of Kevin I did not have the opportunity to get to know Kevin well. Based on the postings and other kind words that I have received about Kevin during the recent days, I realize that this was a lost opportunity on my part. I will regret this fact for years to come. Please know that Grace and I will keep the entire Jenrette family in our prayers.
To Kevin:
Thank you for providing the blanket of freedom that we comfortably sleep under each and every night. Your sacrifice will not be forgotten as we are forever in your debt – RLTW
I thought I would contribute to Kevin’s Memory by describing the events of the Memorial that the 48th Brigade had for him at Camp Atterbury, Indiana where half of the Brigade is training to go over seas to join the 108th in country. I can tell you all that Bobby Brookshire had a rough time of it, but made us all proud in the role call. The First Sergeant called: Major Brookshire and he responded, “With a Heavy Heart, Here First Sergeant!”. As is custom in the ceremony the next name called was Major Jenrette…, Major Kevin Jenrette…, Major Kevin M. Jenrette…
Captain Thomas Bennett and I also were pretty torn up to say the least.
Bobby placed a photo of Kevin in front of his boots. The photo had him in what looked like a garage holding a nice set of deer antlers smiling the way he always did. Bobby said he had asked Kevin why he didn’t mount the whole head. Jenrette’s response was, “It was too small.”
After the ceremony Sir Bennett told the story of when he went to the Halloween Howl (1994) dressed as Jenrette. I think I was at that one, many of you may have been there too. Bennett was a FROG in Tombo’s Company and as many of you know Charlie Company and Delta Company were close that year in particular.
To remember Jenrette Brookshire told the story of how there at the end of our Dog Year, 1991-1992, Jenrette, Bryan Evans, and him did an Airborne Mission on UGA’s Bulldog Battalion and stole their ROTC sign in the middle of the night to present to our AGGRESSOR Advisor, LTC Fornshell, at our Golden Buddah Crest night. It almost went off without a hitch and yes indeed they had a successful mission.
Thomas Bennett told a story from Fort Polk last February when he was in the 108th area making arrangements to transfer the 108th equipment from there to Camp Shelby, Mississippi. He said he told Jenrette that he will always love him like a brother, will always call him Sir regardless of the rank, and he will always fear Jenrette. Not that he was scared of him, just had a natural fear of him. Bennette said that there was just some thing about being yelled at by Jenrette. I can say I never thought that last part, but then again I never had Jenrette yelling at me. I was always alongside of him when we were getting yelled at and a year later when Jenrette was doing the yelling often I was right beside him.
Sir Bennett filmed some of it on a camera he had, but our Public Affairs Section had the whole crew out there taking still photos and filming the whole thing with some pretty big cameras. I know that will be given to the family as will the tape from a similar event that took place in the 108th HQ in Afghanistan.
A few more items arrived to include a pocket flag with a card that Sir Bennette and I signed. All those items will also be delivered to the family. I also got one of the blank shells fired in the 21 Gun Salute if the family would like it.
Just last 4th of July I was at North Georgia College for the evening’s fire works. We actually took up a spot near Sirmons Hall to watch the show. Of Course I walked down to the AGGRESSOR Rock. Just as the day in 1992 that we laid the concrete down to secure the Rock in the ground there was my name along with all my DOG Buddies. I went and got my son who at the time was 5 and took him and read all the names to him. It was hard to believe that after sixteen years the names were still there. Someone needs to take Kevin’s children to that Rock so they can see for themselves just one meaningful place in particular where Jenrette’s name lives on. I would only hope I could be there for that.
I am deeply saddened by the loss of a good friend. I will do whatever I can to aid and comfort his family.
Please accept my deepest condolences during this most difficult time. I know that there is nothing I can say that can soften the sorrow of your loss. Your family will be in my prayers.
Kevin and I were brothers in Sigma Chi at North Georgia College. It’s been a few years since I last saw Kevin. The last memory in my mind is of him standing on the steps leading to the chow hall at NGC a few of years after we had all graduated – I believe it was at PA Weekend or Gold Rush. I remember that Kevin always had a contagious, positive “can-do” attitude. Always had a kind word. Always ready to help someone. Kevin was quietly confident. A man of good character. Someone with whom I was personally proud to associate.
Thinking about Kevin during the past few days, I keep remembering a paragraph from Theodore Roosevelt’s speech at the Sorbonne where he spoke about the importance participatory citizenship – best know as the “Man in the Arena” speech. He states that we owe our freedoms to the brave souls that do the rough work of the world, the “doers of deeds”, the ones who are actually in the arena. If there ever was a “man in the arena” it was Kevin Jenrette. Kevin was the definition of a leader – a leader by example. We have lost a brave warrior, patriot, and friend. This world is a better place for Kevin having left his legacy on it. We are all better people for having known Kevin and witnessed his example in life.
I will always remember Kevin first for the leader he was and second for the mentoring and friendship. I was fortunate to receive an extra measure as Kevin’s little brother in Sigma Chi. I quickly found out that the Commander we feared as freshmen turned out to be a very thoughtful and caring person. I still have a book or two he had me read and report on along with some letters he wrote while we were both at Ft. Benning. Kevin’s envelope taunted my drill sergeant of course, and I “paid the postage” for those taunts! Funny little things like that seemed to be a specialty. Kevin always had time to smile or make someone smile. Many of us have swapped stories over the phone or email the last few days and they generally involve a funny situation, nearly unbelievable, centered on Kevin and his endeavors. He also knew when to be serious and took the time to pass on traditions and his thoughts and beliefs. I always felt like I could take on any challenge after hanging out with Kevin!
Later I got to see and talk to Kevin from time to time while he was stationed in Dahlonega and later in the National Guard. Kevin became such a devoted family man and Christian that it was a source of inspiration for me. He always talked about his family and we discussed church and our beliefs and Kevin’s were deeply rooted. Anyone who knew Kevin knew his character because he lived it, no spoken sermon was needed.
I cannot paint a better picture than so many already have, but know that Kevin lived a life that mattered. He touched so many other people in a positive manner that his legacy will live on. I look back at my years at NGC and am grateful at the quality of friends I had and people I knew.
A great man gave his life for liberty and my thoughts and prayers go out to his family. It has been many years since I’ve seen Jenrette, but I can picture him now as if it were yesterday; an ol’ worn out hat with the bill curved tight, a big ‘ol dip, and a big ‘ol smile, a smile so big his eyes were damn near squinted shut. He was one of the good guys, hardcore on the outside, good as gold on the inside. An evening out for the Animals wasn’t the same without the Butch Crew, and the crew wasn’t complete with Jenrette. Those good times have long come and gone, but the memories will last, as will the spirit of this great American hero.
“The patriot’s blood is the seed of freedom’s tree” – Thomas Campbell
Forever grateful for his sacrifice,
Alex Cowdrey – NGC-’96
Our hearts and prayers go out to you during this difficult time. There are no words or comfort that will ease the loss of Kevin but Diana and I offer any assistance that you may need.
Kevin and I served together in Hawaii. He was a young Platoon Leader and I was the company First Sergeant. He made a significant impact on me through his dedication, professionalism, calm leadership, and fantastic sense of humor. He made such an impact that I stayed in touch with him up to the time of his deployment and considered him a true friend. I have not met a finer man, officer, husband and father. It has my distinct honor to have met Kevin, to have served with Kevin, but more importantly to have been allowed to be his friend. Kevin, I know you are looking down on us all; may God bless you and your entire family.
I was a year behind Kevin at NGC and had the privilege of knowing him for 3 years. When I got the call from Roger my heart fell into my feet. I realized then how much Kevin had impacted my life in just a short amount of time even though I hadn’t seen Kevin in years and yet the memory of him was still so vivid. We were in Sigma Chi and Aggressors. My fondest memories of Kevin were from my Junior year (his senior year). He was either in jeans, cowboy boots, and a john deer hat after hours or squared away in the uniform of the day. He was Delta Company Commander and I was his 1st Sgt for a qtr. I decided I wanted to commission so to better myself I wanted to join the Aggressors and I remember him asking me if that’s what I really wanted to do. I showed up at the Rock and from then on until I got my beret and 1st level patch Kevin taught me more than he’ll ever know. At the time he mostly invoked fear in me every thurs lol but looking back on those times made me realize what great character,leadership and discipline he exemplified.
Kevin paid the ultimate price for our country and he will always be remembered. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and know that you have the greatest network of support because of what Kevin meant to all of us.
I am a Sigma Chi from the University of Alabama (many many years ago) and I am saddened for Kevin and his family but I am also honored and indebted to him for his service and sacrifice on my behalf and that of his country, which he obviously loved very much.
As classmates of Kevin’s at North Georgia, Anna and I were so saddened to hear of your loss. While time and distance did not help us stay in touch, I will always remember Kevin as we knew him 15 years ago.
As both a Sigma Chi brother and in having undergone the rigors of Aggressor training together, I was fortunate to spend time with Kevin during those brief years in several ways. Regardless of whether he was “helping” a young cadet to be his best or making a point at a fraternity meeting, Kevin was always respectful, positive, of good humor and ready with a smile. Simply stated, he was a strong and caring young man.
We won’t forget the sacrifice that Kevin and your family have made for all of us. As our children grow to understand the meaning of selfless service, love of country, and devotion to others, they will also know of “Major Jenrette.” You’ll be in our prayers.
Kevin was they type of guy that made you smile upon the mention of his name. I was one of many who attended NGC with Kevin. Even though it has been 16 years since I have seen Kevin, I have the indelible impression of his kind demeanor and sincere friendship in my mind each time I think of him. I pray for the Jenrette family, for peace that passeth all understanding, during this difficult time. My heart pours out to each of you.
I am so thankful for soldiers like Kevin who defend my freedom everyday. Kevin’s service as a Guardsman, beyond the call of duty, is a shining example of his character. May we honor Kevin as we remember his ultimate sacrifice.
With Gratitude,
Tinsley Irvin Hayes
Dearest Friends – Shannon, Corey, Brody and Megan,
I have read through the sympathies of dozens of Kevin’s friends and I am truly saddened at your loss. Having graduated in 1985 and moving from the area, I never had the pleasure of meeting your husband/father, however, our bonds were fourfold; NGC, Sigma Chi Brother, Comrade in Arms and most importantly Brother in Christ. Men are born and at their appointed time are called home as their work on this earth is complete, but they live on in the hearts of those who knew them. May God grant each of you the peace of knowing Kevin is still living on in so many hearts. By God’s grace I hope to one day meet Kevin in the place where there is no sorrow.
May I offer these prayers on your behalf:
O God, our heavenly Father, who lovest mankind, and art most merciful and compassionate, have mercy upon they servants Shannon, Corey, Brody and Megan for whom I humbly pray thee, and commend to thy gracious care and protection. Be thou, O God, their guide and guardian in all their endeavors, lead them in the path of thy truth, and draw them nearer to thee, that they may lead a godly and righteous life in thy love and fear; doing thy will in all things. Give them grace that they may be temperate, industrious, diligent, devout and charitable. Defend them against the assaults of the enemy and grant them wisdom and strength to resist all temptation and corruption of this life; and direct them in the way of salvation, through the merits of thy Son, our Savior Jesus Christ. Amen
Into thy hands, O Lord, I commend the soul of thy servant Kevin, and beseech thee to grant him rest in the place of thy rest, where all thy blessed Saints repose, and where the light of thy countenance shineth forever. And I beseech thee also to grant that our present lives may be godly, sober, and blameless, that, we too may be made worthy to enter into thy heavenly Kingdom with those we love but see no longer: for thou are the Resurrection, and the Life, and the Repose of thy departed servants, O Christ our God, and unto thee we ascribe glory: to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit; now and ever, and unto ages of ages. Amen
In Hoc, John Paget
To the Jenrette family:
I knew Kevin both as a brother and as a friend. His loss has weighed heavily on my heart these last few days. He was a great man, with impeccable character, and a love for those that surrounded him and for the country that we live in. The world is a little dimmer without him. Even though we can’t understand him leaving us so soon, as he stands now with his Creator, I know that he has heard “You have fought the good fight, you have finished your work, My Creation has gained a new luster from your life. ”
Kevin, you will be greatly missed.
Brother, you’ll find it here.
Dear Jenrette Family,
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Kevin was a man of uniquely strong character. It only took a few minutes knowing Kevin to know what he believed in and to know that he had the courage to stand up for those beliefs. Please know that Kevin’s life touched so many other lives. His spirit lives on in the lives of so many others. Most importantly, his spirit lives on in Corey, Brody and Megan. Your father fought for what he believed in and had the strength to smile in good times and bad. He was a leader and a friend. I have been so deeply moved reading the words left by the people that Kevin touched. I am sitting in my office with tears in my eyes reading the words that Jason Bryan wrote. I am humbled because I know that I have the security and freedom to sit in my office and write these words because men like Kevin had the courage to wake up everyday and defend it. Thank you Kevin! God Bless!
Josh Teteak
North Georgia College Class of 1994
To the Jenrette Family: As Commandant at NGCSU, I came to know Kevin a few years ago when he graciously agreed to serve as an observer-controller for our new cadets during an August FROG Week. Since that time, I have communicated with him only a couple of times, but I hold his service to his country and his love for NGC in high regard. I know his classmates have shown an overpowering demonstration of their love for him via email, and that says a lot! He was “like family” to SCORES of alumni, and he was a man whom everybody genuinely liked to be with. In my 10 years at the college, I have never heard any alumnus say anything about Kevin OTHER THAN what a great officer he was!
I will continue to pray for your family during these difficult times, and I count it an honor to have known Kevin while he was on this earth.
May God bless all of you.
Sincerely,
Tom Palmer, NGC ‘73
Shannon and family – Roger, Tombo and Mike:
Reading over the postings and heart-felt messages from all of the people that loved Kevin so much – I cannot hold back the wave of grief any longer. I completely agree with so many that the time we shared with Kevin at NGC will forever be held as some of the best times. No matter the length of time that passed since last seeing Kevin, our memories are clear as if it were yesterday and Kevin was always happy to share his smile.
That smile that we have all experienced at one time or another – Kevin is out hero.
Shannon and family – I know that nothing anyone says or writes can make your pain any less, but I pray that after some time has passed, you will be able to look back over all of this and beam with pride at the fine man Kevin was. One day the tears will be lessened and the smiles increased. You are ALL paying the highest price for our freedoms and we, as extended family, friends, and citizens truly appreciate Kevin’s service and ultimate sacrifice.
Roger, Tombo and Mike – you are the BEST friends a man can have. Please know how much we all love you and hope that our little boys may become half the men you are all! You all have a very special place in my heart. Knowing you – I am truly blessed.
I pray that God cradles your families in his arms and provides you with the comfort you need now and over the next days, months and years.
Kevin – you are truly a blessing to us all and I am so honored to be able to call you a friend.
Although I have never met MAJ Kevin Jenrette, I am a proud member of the NGC family and know the path he took to become an Army Officer. The brotherhood of those who pass thru the Boar’s Head Brigade share something special from the moment they enter into FROG Week thruout their next four years and onward either into the military or the civilian sector. Truly, Kevin’s friends from NGC have reached out to the family and each other and know the bond they built from that early experience in Dahlonega will sustain them thru this experience.
I lost my father, a WWII veteran and mentor for life, 7 weeks ago to an inoperable brain tumor and know from that recent experience that my NGC buds were there for me and had my back. I’m proud to see that the tradition of supporting one another, long after we have left the Drill Field at NGC, continues to this day.
Renee and I offer our most sincere condolences to the Jenrette family and know that our prayers will be with you in the days ahead. God Bless.
Joshua 1:9: “Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go.”
God Bless
LTC Chris & Renee Bagley (NGC ‘85)
My prayers go out to the entire Jenrette Family. I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss. I served with MAJ Jenrette while assigned to the Georgia Recruiting & Retention Battalion and again after I retired as a contractor. He was not just a fellow Soldier, I considered him a friend. He never hesitated to listen, provide guidance and take care of his enlisted soldiers. May you find comfort in knowing that MAJ Jenrette positively touched the lives of so many and we will always be here for you. He will be missed.
I am deeply saddened to hear of the loss of such a wonderful person. I was a classmate of Kevin’s at NGC and though I have not seem him in many years, I am honored and humbled to have known a true America hero. My thoughts and prayers are with the Kevin’s friends and family during this difficult time. God Bless You Kevin, you will be missed.
Jenrette Family,
I knew Kevin while at NGC, but being two years ahead and in different fraternities, I didn’t have the opportunity get to know him well. I regret that missed opportunity. Over the past 6 years, I have gotten to know Tombo, Roger and Mike very well, and I now understand that Kevin was made of the same Character and Principles that they come from. By knowing them and reading the comments below, I know that he was a great warrior and friend to many. I pray that my two boys will grow to be men like that.
Corey, Brody, and Megan… Your father is a true hero. Understand that the freedoms that we enjoy in the United States, most of which we all take for granted, are because of men like your father, who sacrifice to protect us and the freedoms that we enjoy.
God Bless your family!
To the Jenrette family,
My deepest heartfelt condolences go out to you in the tragic loss of Kevin. Kevin was a great leader and his courage, dedication, and sense of honor served as a great role model for me. Kevin’s ultimate sacrifice in defense of this great country and our freedom will never be forgotten. May God bless you and guide you through this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Barry Hearne
NGC ‘97
Dear Shannon- First, my family’s thoughts and prayers go to you, your children, and the entire Jenrette family. After reading the comments from many of my fellow Sigma Chi brothers, classmates, and NGC staff, it overwhelms my heart with both joy and sadness. Every statement rings so true, that I can only reiterate their words. When hearing the news on Thursday, my heart sank. I hadn’t seen or spoken with Kevin in many years, but immediately his unmistakable smile came to my mind. Spending the better part of Friday afternoon looking through old college pictures, even a spring break video when Kevin and I stayed together. Every emotion came to surface, grief, laughter, and everything thing in between. My wife returned home late Friday evening with my two girls after a week beach trip. As huge tears rolled down my face I hugged my children as tight as I could. My six year old looked at me and ask why I was crying. I told her that an old friend of daddy’s went to be with God in heaven and I was a little sad. I then shard the photos and fond memories of my friend with them and told them of how proud I was to have know Mr. Kevin. My daughter once again looked at me and said “Don’t be sad daddy, if we are proud of Mr. Kevin God is proud of him too”. How true, I will celebrate and giver thanks for having known him. Kevin is not only a friend, he was a brother, an example for others, a TRUE American hero.
May God’s blessings and grace be with you and your family.
Scott Smith
NCC ‘94
Shannon,
I cannot tell you how heartbroken I was to hear about Kevin. Although we have lost touch over the years I want you to know that I am here for you if you need anything. Kevin was such a wonderful person. I remember the very first time you told me that you liked him and that one day you would marry him. I cannot imagine what you are going through. I will continue to pray for the entire Jenrette family.
Dear Jenrette Family,
I was deeply saddened to hear this news and please know that of all my family’s thoughts and prayers are with you.
I was honored to know Kevin while at North Georgia College. We were in the Corps of Cadets and Fraternity brothers in Sigma Chi. He was good friend, a true leader and was the type of person that others on campus and in the military aspired to emulate.
After graduation I had lost touch with Kevin but was lucky enough to see him a few years ago at the Atlanta Motor Speedway during a National Guard recruiting drive. I introduced him to my wife and we talked for about 30 minutes reminiscing about the good times at NGC. As we finished our conversation, Kevin and I shook hands and as I walked away I told my wife that he was one of the most squared away soldiers that I had ever met and that anyone who served with him was lucky to have such a good and decent leader. If there is one thing that is evident it is that the North Georgia family bonds are strong. Even though we may not see old friends we still think about each other often and pray for the others well being.
I am also very grateful for Kevin’s service to our country. I recently saw a television interview where an Iraq war veteran was asked, “Why do you put on the uniform and serve?” He simply said, “So my friends and family don’t have to.” I think about that often and realize that Kevin, as did many of our friends from North Georgia who have served and still serve today, did it so everyone could enjoy the freedom we sometimes take for granted.
May God bless all of you.
Richard Wilson
North Georgia College Class of 1995
I struggle to express the sadness weighing on my heart. Never did I imagine seeing my friend from college on the evening news as one of three KIA overseas. So many fond memories of Kevin keep surfacing in my mind. We shared bonds of bortherhood in Sigma Chi, the Corp of Cadets, and even in the Business Department at NGC (many marketing classes w/ Dr. Skelley)!
To the entire Jenrette family, my prayers are with you.
One memory that keeps popping up to me is the night Tombo, Nixon, and Jenrette all went out during their senior year and got tattoos to show their loyalty to each other and to the Aggressors / Colombo. On their shoulder below the Aggressor / Colombo symbol was the word “Pals”. Tombo and Roger, the bravery your dear pal displayed will never be forgotten. May the Lord look over and strengthen you during this difficult time.
Ryan Shaffer
Our prayers are with the family. While we did not know Kevin well, he has left a legacy with his family and classmates that will be remembered. May God Bless the Jenrette family and those that are with them during this time.
To the Jenrette Family,
I never met Kevin, but wish I had. I am a friend of Roger Nixon, who was a great friend of Kevin. Kevin represents all this is good with America. He gave his life for each of us and I know he is in a better place for it. He is a true hero and I think God for him and all of his fellow soldiers who protect our freedom every day.
I sincerely wish the best for all of his friends and family. I pray for those he left behind. Their sacrifice is so great that words alone cannot heal. Hopefully though, they will at least offer some solace as we all pay tribute to a true hero. I have never met you, but I love you and wish you all the best. I will pray for you.
Dear Jenrette Family,
My deepest condolences during this very difficult time.
Kevin was two years ahead of me at NCG—-my first memories of him were during FROG week when he was braking us in as new cadets (and like most FROG week encounters with upperclassmen, it was not a pleasant experience). Over the two years we spent together at NGC, I was privileged to become fraternity brothers with Kevin and get to know him better.
I have always and will continue to hold Kevin Jenrette in high regard. He was a leader who inspired others to be their best. He was tough but also compassionate.
Alfred Lord Tennyson wrote in Ulysses,
“I am a part of all that I have met;
Yet all experience is an arch wherethro’
Gleams that untravell’d world, whose margin fades
For ever and for ever when I move.”
I’ll alway be grateful for having known Kevin Jenrette. While I wish he was still here with us in life, I am also grateful for the gift that God gives us all to carry those friends and loved ones who have passed with us in our hearts and minds until we meet again.
Paul Hamilton
NCG Class of 1997
THE MEASURE OF A MAN
Author: Anonymous
Not – How did he die? But – How did he live?
Not – What did he gain? But – What did he give?
These are the things that measure the worth
Of a man as a man, regardless of birth.
Not – What was his station? But – had he a heart?
And – How did he play his God-given part?
Was he ever ready with a word of good cheer?
To bring back a smile, to banish a tear?
Not – What was his church? Not – What was his creed?
But – Had he befriended those really in need?
Not – What did the sketch in the newspaper say?
But – How many were sorry when he passed away?
These are the things that measure the worth
Of a man as a man, regardless of birth.
I can’t think of any truer words to describe Kevin’s worth as those above. As so many on here have said, I knew Kevin from our days at NGC. We had some business classes together and attended many of the same socials (okay parties). Shannon may you find some comfort in knowing that so many people are praying for you and your precious family. Corey, Brody and Megan; without a doubt; I know that Roger, Tombo, and Mike will teach you things your daddy loved like hunting, fishing, country music and UGA football. You are lucky to have these men in your live, and I feel certain that they feel lucky to have had your daddy in their lives, albeit for too short a time. COL (ret) and Mrs. Jennrette, may y’all find some peace in knowing how much your son loved and was loved. And to Kevin, thank you so very much to the service for our country. God Bless the USA!
To the Jenrette Family:
We will be remembering you daily in our prayers as you go through this difficult time.
Kevin was one of those guys I always looked up to because of his character, love of country, and selflessness. I’m so thankful that I had the chance to know him at NGC. While in Aggressors he became a mentor and taught me things that I still rely on to this very day.
Kevin, you will be missed!
“Now to him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us”–Ephesians 3:20
Donny Payne
A/RLTW
NGC ‘96
I am proud to have known Kevin. What an amazing person. He is the perfect example of all that I try to teach my students- loyal, courageous, a proud American and a true hero.
God bless him and his family, friends and loved ones. We will not forget what you have given.
To Shannon, Corey, Brody, Megan, and Family,
It is with the deepest of heart ache that we all write to you on this occasion. We all pray that you’ll find solace in the evidence written by all that Kevin is one of the finest men we’ve been privileged to know. One can not read these sentiments without wiping back tears as we nod in agreement with every last testament to his character, courage, and love for life. Please know that Kevin enriched each of our lives, whether it was only but a few years at NGC or lifetime… we are all better for knowing him.
Kevin, I thank you as a mentor, love you as a brother, and SALUTE you as a Soldier!
… we found true friendship in you!
Camden & Deborah Olsen, NGC ‘96
To the Jenrette family,
My prayers go out to you all in this trying time.
From time to time over the 23 years since I first met Kevin I have thought back on conversations that we had. I seems odd that I can look back on things we talked of as part time roommates at Lyman Ward and consider them deep or life changing. How much vision can a fourteen and sixteen year old have? I guess the answer is not as much then as we thought at the time and more now than I ever realized.
I am sure he has touched the lives of more people than anyone will ever know.
God bless you and keep you.
I cannot express fully the way the news of Kevin’s death has saddened me. I was a classmate of his and knew him from the LWMA days.
My condolences to Kevin’s family. My thoughts have been with you constantly.
To the Jenrette family – my thoughts and prayers go out to you in this very trying time. He made the ultimate sacrifice for his country and we are all grateful for his service and his patriotism.
To the Jenrette family:
Kevin was a great man and a true inspiration to those of us who followed in his footsteps at NGC and aspired to become Army leaders. I was fortunate to have met him several times throughout my career and always held him in high regard. We had many mutual friends, and I never met anyone who had anything negative to say about Kevin. I live in Gainesville now, and I hope I can help in any way possible in the weeks and months ahead. Had the roles been reversed, I know Kevin would have done the same.
Kevin – Rest in peace, brother. You are not forgotten. You crossed the deep river without us. We look forward to seeing you on the other side.
Micah Garrison
*****
No news of a loss of life hit me harder than the one I received on Thursday evening. Kevin was a wonderful person and we are all better for knowing him. While we were in the Corps, I always respected him and we got along pretty good. It wasn’t until we were roommates our senior year that I realized what a great guy he was (except for the fact that he had to listen to country music to go to sleep).
My thoughts and prayers go out to everyone who is grieving.
To Shannon, Corey, Brody, Megan, Col. and Mrs. Jenrette,
I am deeply saddened to be writing this message to you about Kevin Jenrette, my friend, who paid the ultimate sacrifice for our Great Nation. Your Daddy, Husband, and Son was a wonderful man. Although I have not seen Kevin in six or seven years, I see him clearly in my mind tonight. Kevin was a man of principle and character. Not once, in any recollection that I have, did your father sacrifice his morals and values for any cause. I am positive that he received these values from his father and mother, that this was the reason that Shannon loved him so dearly, and I am certain that he has passed along these values to you, his children, as his legacy.
My fondest memories of Kevin, from NGC, was from my Sophmore year, his Junior year when I was a squad leader in Delta Company and Kevin was our First Sergeant during Winter Quarter. Chris Steele and I were roommates and usually the first thing that Kevin said when he entered our room was “elevate your feet”. It was on one particular night that I heard your father laugh and smile more than anytime that I knew him. He entered our room without knocking because he heard a “disturbance” in the hallway. What he found when he entered was Chris and I recalculating the amount of “green line” required to do a successful slack jump out of our third story window in Gaillard Hall. Much to his dismay, we proceeded and Chris conducted a perfect slack jump onto the bushes in front of Gerard Samples room. Kevin chuckled and smiled for about 30 minutes while he “smoked” us for breaking the rules.
Tonight I read what many that commented before me wrote about your father, husband and son. Some of the postings made me smile and many made my eyes well up with tears. We will never understand the sorrow and pain that you feel. We can only pray that in due time, that you will understand that Kevin was a true American Hero and that his sacrifice was not in vain. It was only his body that perished and that his soul will live in you and us forever. I am certain that Kevin is with our Creator in Heaven and that his last moments were thoughts of you. You will be in our thoughts and prayers over the days to come and know that your support structure reaches out beyond your front door and your immediate family. Kevin was truly loved by us all and it is only fitting that we offer up any assistance that we can provide.
For Kevin’s dear friends, we are all heavy hearted with this loss. It was last Thursday evening that I took the phone call from Roger and learned that Kevin had passed. Please know that your comments, albeit directed to Kevin’s family, meant a lot to me as your friend. I have traveled in and out of Afghanistan over the last three years and know what challenges that our Nation faces first hand. For those of you still serving in our Armed Forces, I salute you. May your journies be short and bring you home safe.
Respectfully,
Matt
*****
In times like this we often realize the strong network of friends developed over the years. While I did not know Kevin on a personal level like many of his classmates from 95, I did know him as an upperclassman with great character and dedication. I am sorry for the loss to the family and know that he will be truly missed by all. We have all be touched by not all his service to the nation, our school, but to his family.
Chris Lange NGC 97
Corey, Brody and Megan:
This is my favorite part about your daddy; I’ll think of him everytime I see a green John Deere hat. I’ll always picture him wearing one and he made that old hat look really cool.
I too am honored to have been in the company of such a man and to have called him my brother.
He epitomizes the difference in the American warrior; he fought out of great love. Love for you, your mom, your grand parents alll of his friends, Love for the freedom that he inherited and made an oath to defend, Love for his Lord and Savior. This is Kevin Jenrette’s story and legacy. I will cherish it for the inspiration that it brings me now and for the days ahead. My children will know about you and your dad. Thank you.
Love in Christ,
Jason Rue
NGC ‘94
To the Jenrette Family,
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this trying time. We are deeply saddened by your loss and I know that I have lost a good friend. I am comforted, however, by the fact that Kevin died doing what he knew was the right thing for so many different reasons. He will always have my utmost respect for that.
My wife Wendy and I feel lucky to have known Kevin. We both met him at North Georgia College in the Corps of Cadets beginning in 1991. To me, Kevin was the type of man that you meet just once in your lifetime. Kevin was a true leader. He had a purpose in everything that he did. He didn’t have to have someone teach him how to be that way or what to say or how to act in certain situations. It just came naturally to him. Knowing Kevin made you want to be a better person. In fact, just being around him made me expect more from myself. Kevin was real. I never had to guess what he was about, what he was thinking, or how he was going to react. With him it was right or it was wrong. You always knew where you stood with Kevin. All you had to do was to look him in the eye. No words needed to be said.
I was fortunate to be able to interact with Kevin outside of the Corps of
Cadets in NGC’s Sigma Chi chapter, Theta Epsilon. I saw a different side of Kevin in our various meetings and social gatherings then.
I came into the fraternity in my junior year and was surprised by Kevin by the deep desire that he had (along with other brothers of the fraternity) for instilling the ideals of Sigma Chi into myself and my other pledge brothers. I could tell that the things that Kevin was telling me were already ingrained into his being. The ideals that were being magnified by the fraternity were ideals that Kevin was already living.
I remember our senior year at NGC. Kevin and Tombo Jones were both fellow company Commanders in Gaillard Hall. The stories that would circulate around the Corps about how Kevin and Tombo would lead their units became legend fairly quickly…the pet frog, taking their freshmen up to the slopes of Radar Ridge for a inter-company mud fight and the like. Kevin was a team builder. His company at school knew that about
him and loved him for it as did his peers. When I think of the Corps of
Cadets, Kevin Jenrette has a place front and center in my mind. He helped define what NGC was about during his time there and I am better for having known him during his time on this earth.
For those memories and the time that I spent with Kevin while he was with us I count myself lucky and grateful. I will miss him greatly!
You have our sincerest condolences,
Tommy Akin and Wendy Woods-Akin
NGC ‘95
I only met Kevin briefly while going through Ranger school; however, I remember how honored I felt to finally meet him.
Going through school at NGC we all heard stories about Kevin, Tombo, Roger, and Mike Ivy. We all tried to be like Kevin – to “never lower the standard” that was set so high by him. His legacy made such a lasting impact on me that to this day I still have Kevin’s old Ranger School Handbook (RHB) displayed on my bookshelf. It has written on the front cover, “B/M Jenrette”. That RHB was passed down over the years after Kevin left NGC and was eventually handed down to Nick Berrena. When Nick passed away in 1996 a few of us kept some things that meant a lot to him. Kevin’s RHB was one of those things. I would like to return it to the Jenrette family or Kevin’s closest friends since Kevin wrote his name on it. I was fortunate enough to have it through these years – it has motivated me through many things.
To the Jenrette family – Kevin’s legacy lives on through so many of us still serving.
God bless you all during this time. You are in my prayers.
“…and never will I lower the standard which has been set by those members before me…” – Aggressor Creed
Mark Wade
*****
To the Jenrette Family,
I express my sincere condolences to you during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers will be you during this difficult time. As you can see, Kevin was greatly loved, admired and respected by friends, his fraternal brothers and the members of the staff at NGC and elsewhere. i did not have the pleasure of meeting Kevin before i left NGC but know that as a member of Sigma Chi he would have portrayed those values that Sigma Chi’s hold dear and true to their heart. God will help us all out during this difficult time.
God Bless
Jon LaFollette
NGC ‘89
Any soldier that perishes on the battlefield is a great loss. However, when it is a fellow NGC Warrior, it pierces to a deeper level. Although I did not know Kevin directly, the vicarious friendships that we shared provide insight to him. Our hearts and prayers go out to the Jenrette Family.
Shannon,
I am not sure if you remember me or not…we were in Mrs. Jones 4th/5th Grade combined class at Lula Elementary School. We also attended East Hall High School Together. Some how I was included in the email chain concerning your husband. I graduated from North Georgia College in 2005 after 8 years in the U.S. Army.
I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss. My family’s thoughts and prayers will be with you through this ordeal. Having served in the Army myself this is something that you never want to see happen. We all go in knowing that it could but we always put it out of our minds to get the job at hand done. God Bless men like your husband and the many like him for putting themselves in harms way to keep this great country of ours free! Again…our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours through this difficult time.
Shannon & the entire Jenrette Family,
I can’t express how truly sorry I am for your loss! I have had such a heavy heart since hearing about this tragedy. My thoughts and prayers are with you all!
Shannon – I can’t imagine how you feel! Please know that while time may have seperated us, you will always have a special place in my heart! If there is anything I can do, please let me know!
Love,
Katie Williams Pettit
To the Jenrette Family -
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.
Kevin was my comany commander at NGC my freshman year and later my fraternity brother. To say he was respected does not do it justice.
For our company, he always encouraged, set high goals and expected each of us to do well. I remember him as a person of unquestionable high character. Most of all I remember him as a leader.
Kevin was an amazing person. All of us who knew him are truly better for it.
We all will meet many people throughout our lives. However, very few of us will be honored to know someone as remarkable as your Son, Husband and Father.
With very best wishes,
Russ Lipari
NGC (’98)
Shannon,
My heartfelt condolences go out to you, your children, the Jenrette family, and friends alike.
My relationship with Kevin seems brief in the grand scheme of things, but in the years we were classmates and brothers in Sigma Chi fraternity, he always impressed me with a maturity level beyond his years. I never experienced the military side of Kevin’s life, and I always remember him being soft spoken compared to most at our fraternity meetings. However when Kevin spoke within our circle, his beliefs were always true and steadfast, and one always knew where he stood with Kevin. In those meetings it was obvious to see the value and weight his words carried with our brotherhood. A respected leader among our circle of friends.
I’m eternally grateful for the ultimate sacrifice Kevin made for the privilege of freedom that we so often take for granted. God rest his soul.
Sincerely,
Chris Taylor
NGC 96
Family and Friends of Kevin -
What a wonderful man we had the priviledge to know. Kevin was a NGC friend and classmate and like so many others have said, was such a joy to be around. His smile was infectious and his attitude was always so upbeat and positive. He was a true southern gentleman and I am thankful to have known him and for all his service to our country. My thoughts and prayers are with each and everyone of you.
Shannon, Corey, Brody, Megan, COL and Mrs. Jenrette
First let me say I am here for you in any way needed. Maj J and I were the Task Force Command team of TF Ripper for the Recruiting and Retention Bn and spent everday together for well over a year. In that time Maj J was like a brother to me we mentored eachother in different ways. You must know that Maj J was a Soldiers Officer always out front and never asking his Soldiers to do or give anything that he himself would not do! I would follow him anywhere. I must tell you that very few Officers impacted me the way Maj J did. Oh and know that he not only talked the ARMY Values he lived them. The Georgia Army National Guards lost of Maj Jenrette has lefted us weaker today. He has touched me and all who knew him and will never be forgotten. My prayers are with all of you.
SGM Ronald George
Just wanted to add my thoughts and prayers to the list. No words can soften the loss of a loved one, but this is a wonderful tribute to a man who appears to have left his impact on a lot of people. Thank you for your service, and I am truly sorry for your loss. Rick Spearman ‘80.
To the Jenrette Family:
Grace and I are deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Kevin. Being three years ahead of Kevin I did not have the opportunity to get to know Kevin well. Based on the postings and other kind words that I have received about Kevin during the recent days, I realize that this was a lost opportunity on my part. I will regret this fact for years to come. Please know that Grace and I will keep the entire Jenrette family in our prayers.
To Kevin:
Thank you for providing the blanket of freedom that we comfortably sleep under each and every night. Your sacrifice will not be forgotten as we are forever in your debt – RLTW
Sincerely,
Tripp Melton – NGC ‘92
I thought I would contribute to Kevin’s Memory by describing the events of the Memorial that the 48th Brigade had for him at Camp Atterbury, Indiana where half of the Brigade is training to go over seas to join the 108th in country. I can tell you all that Bobby Brookshire had a rough time of it, but made us all proud in the role call. The First Sergeant called: Major Brookshire and he responded, “With a Heavy Heart, Here First Sergeant!”. As is custom in the ceremony the next name called was Major Jenrette…, Major Kevin Jenrette…, Major Kevin M. Jenrette…
Captain Thomas Bennett and I also were pretty torn up to say the least.
Bobby placed a photo of Kevin in front of his boots. The photo had him in what looked like a garage holding a nice set of deer antlers smiling the way he always did. Bobby said he had asked Kevin why he didn’t mount the whole head. Jenrette’s response was, “It was too small.”
After the ceremony Sir Bennett told the story of when he went to the Halloween Howl (1994) dressed as Jenrette. I think I was at that one, many of you may have been there too. Bennett was a FROG in Tombo’s Company and as many of you know Charlie Company and Delta Company were close that year in particular.
To remember Jenrette Brookshire told the story of how there at the end of our Dog Year, 1991-1992, Jenrette, Bryan Evans, and him did an Airborne Mission on UGA’s Bulldog Battalion and stole their ROTC sign in the middle of the night to present to our AGGRESSOR Advisor, LTC Fornshell, at our Golden Buddah Crest night. It almost went off without a hitch and yes indeed they had a successful mission.
Thomas Bennett told a story from Fort Polk last February when he was in the 108th area making arrangements to transfer the 108th equipment from there to Camp Shelby, Mississippi. He said he told Jenrette that he will always love him like a brother, will always call him Sir regardless of the rank, and he will always fear Jenrette. Not that he was scared of him, just had a natural fear of him. Bennette said that there was just some thing about being yelled at by Jenrette. I can say I never thought that last part, but then again I never had Jenrette yelling at me. I was always alongside of him when we were getting yelled at and a year later when Jenrette was doing the yelling often I was right beside him.
Sir Bennett filmed some of it on a camera he had, but our Public Affairs Section had the whole crew out there taking still photos and filming the whole thing with some pretty big cameras. I know that will be given to the family as will the tape from a similar event that took place in the 108th HQ in Afghanistan.
A few more items arrived to include a pocket flag with a card that Sir Bennette and I signed. All those items will also be delivered to the family. I also got one of the blank shells fired in the 21 Gun Salute if the family would like it.
Just last 4th of July I was at North Georgia College for the evening’s fire works. We actually took up a spot near Sirmons Hall to watch the show. Of Course I walked down to the AGGRESSOR Rock. Just as the day in 1992 that we laid the concrete down to secure the Rock in the ground there was my name along with all my DOG Buddies. I went and got my son who at the time was 5 and took him and read all the names to him. It was hard to believe that after sixteen years the names were still there. Someone needs to take Kevin’s children to that Rock so they can see for themselves just one meaningful place in particular where Jenrette’s name lives on. I would only hope I could be there for that.
I am deeply saddened by the loss of a good friend. I will do whatever I can to aid and comfort his family.
Adrew Lane(NGC 1995)
Dear Jenrette Family,
Please accept my deepest condolences during this most difficult time. I know that there is nothing I can say that can soften the sorrow of your loss. Your family will be in my prayers.
Kevin and I were brothers in Sigma Chi at North Georgia College. It’s been a few years since I last saw Kevin. The last memory in my mind is of him standing on the steps leading to the chow hall at NGC a few of years after we had all graduated – I believe it was at PA Weekend or Gold Rush. I remember that Kevin always had a contagious, positive “can-do” attitude. Always had a kind word. Always ready to help someone. Kevin was quietly confident. A man of good character. Someone with whom I was personally proud to associate.
Thinking about Kevin during the past few days, I keep remembering a paragraph from Theodore Roosevelt’s speech at the Sorbonne where he spoke about the importance participatory citizenship – best know as the “Man in the Arena” speech. He states that we owe our freedoms to the brave souls that do the rough work of the world, the “doers of deeds”, the ones who are actually in the arena. If there ever was a “man in the arena” it was Kevin Jenrette. Kevin was the definition of a leader – a leader by example. We have lost a brave warrior, patriot, and friend. This world is a better place for Kevin having left his legacy on it. We are all better people for having known Kevin and witnessed his example in life.
Sincerely,
Jeremy Godwin
I will always remember Kevin first for the leader he was and second for the mentoring and friendship. I was fortunate to receive an extra measure as Kevin’s little brother in Sigma Chi. I quickly found out that the Commander we feared as freshmen turned out to be a very thoughtful and caring person. I still have a book or two he had me read and report on along with some letters he wrote while we were both at Ft. Benning. Kevin’s envelope taunted my drill sergeant of course, and I “paid the postage” for those taunts! Funny little things like that seemed to be a specialty. Kevin always had time to smile or make someone smile. Many of us have swapped stories over the phone or email the last few days and they generally involve a funny situation, nearly unbelievable, centered on Kevin and his endeavors. He also knew when to be serious and took the time to pass on traditions and his thoughts and beliefs. I always felt like I could take on any challenge after hanging out with Kevin!
Later I got to see and talk to Kevin from time to time while he was stationed in Dahlonega and later in the National Guard. Kevin became such a devoted family man and Christian that it was a source of inspiration for me. He always talked about his family and we discussed church and our beliefs and Kevin’s were deeply rooted. Anyone who knew Kevin knew his character because he lived it, no spoken sermon was needed.
I cannot paint a better picture than so many already have, but know that Kevin lived a life that mattered. He touched so many other people in a positive manner that his legacy will live on. I look back at my years at NGC and am grateful at the quality of friends I had and people I knew.
A great man gave his life for liberty and my thoughts and prayers go out to his family. It has been many years since I’ve seen Jenrette, but I can picture him now as if it were yesterday; an ol’ worn out hat with the bill curved tight, a big ‘ol dip, and a big ‘ol smile, a smile so big his eyes were damn near squinted shut. He was one of the good guys, hardcore on the outside, good as gold on the inside. An evening out for the Animals wasn’t the same without the Butch Crew, and the crew wasn’t complete with Jenrette. Those good times have long come and gone, but the memories will last, as will the spirit of this great American hero.
“The patriot’s blood is the seed of freedom’s tree” – Thomas Campbell
Forever grateful for his sacrifice,
Alex Cowdrey – NGC-’96
Shannon and the entire Jenrette family,
Our hearts and prayers go out to you during this difficult time. There are no words or comfort that will ease the loss of Kevin but Diana and I offer any assistance that you may need.
Kevin and I served together in Hawaii. He was a young Platoon Leader and I was the company First Sergeant. He made a significant impact on me through his dedication, professionalism, calm leadership, and fantastic sense of humor. He made such an impact that I stayed in touch with him up to the time of his deployment and considered him a true friend. I have not met a finer man, officer, husband and father. It has my distinct honor to have met Kevin, to have served with Kevin, but more importantly to have been allowed to be his friend. Kevin, I know you are looking down on us all; may God bless you and your entire family.
You will be greatly missed but never forgotten!!!
To the Jenrette Family,
I was a year behind Kevin at NGC and had the privilege of knowing him for 3 years. When I got the call from Roger my heart fell into my feet. I realized then how much Kevin had impacted my life in just a short amount of time even though I hadn’t seen Kevin in years and yet the memory of him was still so vivid. We were in Sigma Chi and Aggressors. My fondest memories of Kevin were from my Junior year (his senior year). He was either in jeans, cowboy boots, and a john deer hat after hours or squared away in the uniform of the day. He was Delta Company Commander and I was his 1st Sgt for a qtr. I decided I wanted to commission so to better myself I wanted to join the Aggressors and I remember him asking me if that’s what I really wanted to do. I showed up at the Rock and from then on until I got my beret and 1st level patch Kevin taught me more than he’ll ever know. At the time he mostly invoked fear in me every thurs lol but looking back on those times made me realize what great character,leadership and discipline he exemplified.
Kevin paid the ultimate price for our country and he will always be remembered. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and know that you have the greatest network of support because of what Kevin meant to all of us.
I am a Sigma Chi from the University of Alabama (many many years ago) and I am saddened for Kevin and his family but I am also honored and indebted to him for his service and sacrifice on my behalf and that of his country, which he obviously loved very much.
Dear Jenrette Family,
As classmates of Kevin’s at North Georgia, Anna and I were so saddened to hear of your loss. While time and distance did not help us stay in touch, I will always remember Kevin as we knew him 15 years ago.
As both a Sigma Chi brother and in having undergone the rigors of Aggressor training together, I was fortunate to spend time with Kevin during those brief years in several ways. Regardless of whether he was “helping” a young cadet to be his best or making a point at a fraternity meeting, Kevin was always respectful, positive, of good humor and ready with a smile. Simply stated, he was a strong and caring young man.
We won’t forget the sacrifice that Kevin and your family have made for all of us. As our children grow to understand the meaning of selfless service, love of country, and devotion to others, they will also know of “Major Jenrette.” You’ll be in our prayers.
Gerard and Anna Sample
(NGC – 1994)